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Protests in County Down as ex-gays meet

Feb 23rd, 2010 | By CanuckJacq | Category: Current Affairs

The newly formed Stop Conversion Therapy Taskforce (SCOTT) protested an ex-gay conference held in Ballynahinch, County Down.

The group was founded by gay investigative journalist Patrick Strudwick who sought to discover the methods used by those therapists who claim they can cure the gay, by presenting himself as seeking to be rid of his homosexuality.  In his year-long investigation, he signed up with two therapists, including one man who turned out to be the psychiatrist Iris Robinson famously promoted at the peak of her anti-gay crusade.

I have a very lovely psychiatrist who works with me in my offices and his Christian background is that he tries to help homosexuals – trying to turn away from what they are engaged in[...] I’m happy to put any homosexual in touch with this gentleman and I have met people who have turned around and become heterosexuals.
Iris Robinson, from bbc.co.uk

This man, Dr. Paul Miller, spoke about his own sexual desires to the man he was supposed to be “curing” of the gay, revealing that he still has sexual feelings for other men, despite his straight marriage and five children — the supposed proof of his cure. He also had some curious theraputic techniques.

Dr. Paul Miller

I want you to hear, as a man, as I look at your body, I see strong shoulders and a strong chest, I see a man who has an attractive body and I want you just to notice the arousal you feel as you hear me talking about that.
Dr. Paul Miller, treating Patrick Strudwick, reported in the Independent.co.uk

Patrick Strudwick also saw a female therapist, who he names only as Lynn. She focuses on his childhood, asking questions about his relationship with his parents, whether or not he had a difficult birth and then finally insists that he was sexually abused as a child and simply doesn’t remember it.

[Lynn] looks up. I ask her again about this abuse. “I think there is something there,” she says. “You’ve allowed things to be done to you.” In the next session I ask if she thinks the abuse would have taken place within my family, because I can’t remember it. “Yes, very likely,” she replies.
from the Independent.co.uk

The journalist didn’t expect to be as affected by this investigation as he was. He reports that he was left feeling, “confused and damaged”.

Investigative Journalist Patrick Strudwick

I began to constantly analyse why I found particular men attractive. Does that man represent something that’s lacking in me? Do I want him because he looks strong which must mean I feel weak? Did something happen in my childhood? The therapists planted doubt and worry where there was none.
from the Independent.co.uk

The experience moved him to create the group that protested the ex-gay event last weekend along with the Queer Youth Network.”The message of our protest is simple,” Strudwick is quoted in the Independent. “Love needs no cure.”

Hosted by a group called Core Issues, the conference called, “Setting Love in Order” featured two speakers. Mario Bergner is a Quebecois minister who is now based in Chicago. In his own mini-biography, he claims that not only did prayer deliver him from homosexuality, but from AIDS as well. He doesn’t however, claim to have ever been diagnosed as HIV positive, only that he had “eleven symptoms of AIDS”.

Christine Sneeringer, ex-lesbian

The other speaker was Christine Sneeringer who claims her lesbianism stems from childhood sexual abuse and a breakdown in her relationship with her mother. She was ultimately saved from lesbianism by a Christian softball league (really).

No reputable counselling or psychotherapy organisation supports conversion therapy and all mainstream studies have shown it to be, at best, ineffective and, at worst, harmful. Because of this, few of these therapists will advertise openly, so it would be tough to discover which therapists offer this “service”.

When seeking a therapist (for non ex-gay purposes), it may be a good idea to ask the recommendations of other gay people you know. If you do end up with a therapist taking an inappropriate perspective on your sexuality, report it to their professional organisation immediately.

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6 Comments

  • How do these people get away with this rubbish? Kinda scary.

    Amy said:
  • This kind of thing is scary.  firstly, why do people want to be rid of an integral part of themselves and secondly, what kind of brainwashing is going on?
    Can a person really be happy if they go to such lengths to change who they are?  surely they be happier coming to terms with who they are
     

    Gooner said:
  • I get really upset by these people. While they do their best to come off all sweet and as if they’re only there for those who want to change, etc, they’re spreading a lie that causes all kinds of heartache for gays, lesbians and their families.

    The bill in Uganda was partly brought about when Ugandans were sold the message that gays can change.

    My mother believes all that bs too. It’s meant she’s never been able to accept that I’m ok as I am.

    CanuckJacq (author) said:
  •  
    This is heartbreaking. I hope someday we’ll get to a point that being gay will be so accepted that no one would ever consider being ‘cured’ from it.
    I can’t think the damage and strain some of these people are under just because they feel they need to hide part of them. For those of them that this genuinely works for – I say that’s great BUT what works for one person doesn’t always work for another. It’s posisble their sexuality was always more fluid then they thought.
    The whole ethos of this line of ‘conversion’ all stems from homophobia. It’s so toxic and as you can see in the article, when consistently pressurized by people like this, no matter how confidant you are, it takes it’s toll and you begin to doubt who you are.
    The counsellor who was insistent about ’sexual abuse’ was particularly worrying because it’s not your job to fit people to a theory it’s your job to fit your theory around what you see in people.
     

    Eebs said:
  • It would be very important to check the credentials of any psychologist, counsellors or psychiatrist you are planning to see.  Also don’t be fooled by strong personalities or even nicely produced advertising or business cards – ask people for credentials and professional memberships.
    Same goes for more fringe practitioners – for example there is one total charlatan pushing themselves around the Dublin scene describing themselves as a “consultant” – same thing goes – look for concrete credentials and professional memberships before letting them “help” you or anybody belonging to you.  Some people could be potentially very dangerous to vulnerable people.  Be warned.

    Laura said:
  • [...] may remember that in February, a group called SCOTT (Stop Conversion Therapy Taskforce) protested a conference in Ballynahinch, Co Down. It was hosted by the same group who are now planning a new event that was initially planned for [...]

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