Sex Talk



Talk the Talk: Umbrella Terms

Apr 17th, 2014 | By | Category: Featured, Sex Talk

I am in two minds about the use of umbrella terms. On one hand, I worry that it creates an us-them mentality and that it erases our individuality. On the other hand, I believe in unity and community.




Against feminist orthodoxy: why sex positivity is sex critical

Apr 16th, 2014 | By | Category: Sex Talk, This and That

After the many fragmentations and horrid situations that happened due to the so-called sex wars of the 1980s, the internet has made it so many of us share spaces again. Nowadays, we are more likely to see it phrased as ‘sex positive’ feminism versus ‘sex negative/critical’ feminism.




Let’s talk about sex

Feb 3rd, 2014 | By | Category: Sex Talk

Apparently there are certain things that you aren’t meant to tell your significant other about. I was told that sex is one of these things. Is this right? Can I talk abut sex with my girlfriend?




The Dating Game: Gender 101

Jan 31st, 2014 | By | Category: Sex Talk

If they identify as a man, they are a man. If they identify as a woman, they are a woman. If they are genderqueer, they are genderqueer, and so this sentence pattern will continue with any other gender expression people choose to identify with.




The Dating Game: Gender Preconceptions

Jan 23rd, 2014 | By | Category: Sex Talk

Cis people have an issue with dating trans* people. The queer community claims a lot of openmindedness around gender and sex, and in my experience, I find this to be true in terms of support and friendship and education. Dating? Not so much.




Graphic sex

Jan 19th, 2014 | By | Category: Books, Sex Talk

The main subject of Oh Joy Sex Toy is sex toys tested and reviewed by Erika and her husband. If you’re interested in toys, this is definitely the comic for you, and even if you don’t have a lot of interest in them, the reviews are fun to read regardless as it’s friendly and oddly cute.




The Language of Lust

Sep 11th, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

One thing I hadn’t anticipated is getting used to how someone else talks, and them getting used to me. I don’t mean deciphering a new accent; I’m referring to Sexy Talk. Everybody has different names and phrases they have for parts of their bodies.




Viva la Vulva!

Sep 9th, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

Your vagina. What do you like about it? How do you feel about it? Do you like how you feel? Recently Sydney University’s newspaper, Honi Suit, was removed from stands because its cover portrayed 18 vulvas. 18 vulvas censored with large black bars. Why the shame?




Losing It

Aug 16th, 2013 | By | Category: Featured, Sex Talk

Man, starting college is the best. It’s probably the first time you are gonna be spending loads of time around other gayers. And chances are, some of these new queerios are gonna want to bone you. Exciting! But wait, you have never done that before! How do you even do it?




Praying for prey

Aug 14th, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

An article on the College Times website caused a furor with its hints at alcoholic lack of consent in its Guide to One Night Stands. But was it just telling the truth?




Careful in there

Jul 5th, 2013 | By | Category: Featured, Sex Talk

You’ve just made love, again, and the slight sweat and sweet scents of bodies is still in the air, you’re wrapped in each others arms, lighting dozing. Then suddenly you remember: could we get cancer from what we’ve just done?




We’re having a baby

Jun 12th, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

We found out on Sunday that my civil partner is pregnant. Pregnant. As in ‘having a baby’. I write those short sentences to try and shock myself into believing it.




Faking it

May 22nd, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

Why is there no good lesbian porn out there? And does anyone actually have sex in their stilettos? And no body hair?




Period Dramas

Feb 23rd, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

  A really cool and impressive thing that most ladies can do is grow a baby. As skills go, this is in my opinion at least as impressive as riding a skateboard through a flaming hoop backwards, or not cocking up the first pancake. But much like the many burned up skateboards and gloopy, deformed […]




One Night Stands

Jan 4th, 2013 | By | Category: Sex Talk

I haven’t had sex in a year. There, just putting that out there. Or rather I’m not putting anything out there, and that’s kinda the point.




Damn! Where’s the safety?

Dec 22nd, 2012 | By | Category: Sex Talk

  If you’ve been part of conversations concerning gay and bi women’s sexuality you probably heard about dental dams. Sometimes called glyde dams, they are small sheets of latex which act as a barrier to infection when performing oral sex on a woman. If you’re in college, or have been in the last few years, you may have come across them […]




Butt it’s sexy

Dec 8th, 2012 | By | Category: Sex Talk

Dudes, there is an elephant in the room, and I think it’s time we talked about it. Not enough people are talking about this elephant, and by elephant I of course mean your butt. Nobody is talking about your butt.

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