One thing I hadn’t anticipated is getting used to how someone else talks, and them getting used to me. I don’t mean deciphering a new accent; I’m referring to Sexy Talk. Everybody has different names and phrases they have for parts of their bodies.
Your vagina. What do you like about it? How do you feel about it? Do you like how you feel? Recently Sydney University’s newspaper, Honi Suit, was removed from stands because its cover portrayed 18 vulvas. 18 vulvas censored with large black bars. Why the shame?
Man, starting college is the best. It’s probably the first time you are gonna be spending loads of time around other gayers. And chances are, some of these new queerios are gonna want to bone you. Exciting! But wait, you have never done that before! How do you even do it?
An article on the College Times website caused a furor with its hints at alcoholic lack of consent in its Guide to One Night Stands. But was it just telling the truth?
You’ve just made love, again, and the slight sweat and sweet scents of bodies is still in the air, you’re wrapped in each others arms, lighting dozing. Then suddenly you remember: could we get cancer from what we’ve just done?
We found out on Sunday that my civil partner is pregnant. Pregnant. As in ‘having a baby’. I write those short sentences to try and shock myself into believing it.
Why is there no good lesbian porn out there? And does anyone actually have sex in their stilettos? And no body hair?
A really cool and impressive thing that most ladies can do is grow a baby. As skills go, this is in my opinion at least as impressive as riding a skateboard through a flaming hoop backwards, or not cocking up the first pancake. But much like the many burned up skateboards and gloopy, deformed [...]
I haven’t had sex in a year. There, just putting that out there. Or rather I’m not putting anything out there, and that’s kinda the point.
If you’ve been part of conversations concerning gay and bi women’s sexuality you probably heard about dental dams. Sometimes called glyde dams, they are small sheets of latex which act as a barrier to infection when performing oral sex on a woman. If you’re in college, or have been in the last few years, you may have come across them [...]
Dudes, there is an elephant in the room, and I think it’s time we talked about it. Not enough people are talking about this elephant, and by elephant I of course mean your butt. Nobody is talking about your butt.
Well ladies, today is the day! You’ve seen it in porn, you’ve maybe even seen your girlfriend
do it, and today, we are gonna learn all about it. That’s right you guys- we’re talking about
Chances are, if you are having sex with girls, you’re fingerbanging a lot, so you know what I’m talking about when I say that fingerbanging is pretty much the greatest use of your hands since the invention of calligraphy pens.
The search for the perfect strap on is something that queerfolk have been doing for forever, or at least since the first lesbian ever discovered that wanting something vaguely phallic inside you does not equal wanting a boyfriend.
The real reason we should all think pornography is problematic is because, if it wasn’t for early porn movies, women would still be able to get a medical vibrator. It may even be on the medical card.
My favourite question to ask the internet has been “How do I tell if somebody likes me?”. Skip Google and use Tole’s handy tips.
I have a confession to make: in my college years, I had a strange sexual peccadillo. It’s not very accepted in certain sectors of modern society. You can’t tell if someone has it just by looking at them. People who have it are embarrassed to admit to it in public